Not condoning what happened but, the blame should be on the shoulders of Elliot Spitzer, the governor. For one, he was married, a former law enforcement official who locked up prostitutes and pimps yet, was using the very same service he was cracking down on. What I don't understand is why the young lady is being blamed by practically everyone while, the governor takes a slap on the wrist? People's values are twisted which is what is wrong with society these days. We give politicians a "free" pass everytime they commit a crime. Remember Bill Clinton? It is okay, he just cheated on his wife. Just say marriage is for the dogs.